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What philosophy is Adlerian psychology aligned with?
Greek philosophy
Who proposed an individual psychology after splitting from Freud?
Alfred Adler
What is the fundamental view of the past in Adlerian psychology?
The past does not exist
What does Adlerian psychology focus on instead of events in the past?
Present goals
Thinking about present goals as the explanation instead of past causes is an example of?
Teleology
What is the study of the purpose of a phenomenon rather than its cause?
Teleology
What is the Adlerian psychology standpoint on what traumas are (that is held adamantly)?
Past traumas do not (even) exist
What is the meaning of past traumas (which do not really even exist) in Adlerian psychology?
The meaning we give them
Anger is just an example of what according to Adlerian psychology?
A tool that can be used to achieve a present goal
What are two goals that anger might be fabricated for according to Adlerian psychology?
Asserting an opinion, making a person submit
Rather than being driven by past causes, according to Adlerian psychology, people do what?
Move toward present goals
How should you get answers according to the philosopher who talked about Adlerian psychology?
Arrive to them yourself
What should you do if you are unable to feel happy as you are according to Adlerian psychology?
Make a decision to choose a different lifestyle
What term in Adlerian psychology is the tendencies of thought and action of a person in life?
Lifestyle
What is the concept called in Adlerian psychology that is similar to personality or disposition?
Lifestyle
If you are unhappy as you are now, yet are scared of the uncertainty following if you choose to change, it is essentially what that is stopping you from being happy?
Lack of courage
What simple point is made to argue that the rest of your life is determined in the current moment?
The past does not exist
What is the main point to accept to understand why it is necessary to think in terms of teleology rather than Freudian etiology (Adlerian psychology)?
People can change
What concept is more suited to reasoning about things than looking for past traumas or causes from the standpoint of Adlerian psychology?
Teleology
Where and when can a person change (choose a different lifestyle) according to Adlerian psychology?
At any time and in any environment
According to Adlerian psychology, at what age does a person typically choose their lifestyle?
10
What term in Adlerian psychology could be taken to mean a person's worldview and outlook on life?
Lifestyle
In a broad sense, what term from Adlerian psychology also means how one sees themself and the world?
Lifestyle
What is the approach used in Adlerian psychology that helps a person to accept themselves as they are currently and then gain the courage to move forward?
Encouragement
How is the lifestyle of a person determined according to Adlerian psychology?
They choose it
What phrase might describe advice that it is better to try, fail, grow, and move on than be afraid to try?
Strong medicine
What is the way a person could eliminate all of their problems according to Adlerian psychology?
Live alone in the universe
If being alone is not what makes you feel lonely, what is it that makes you feel lonely?
Feeling excluded from people around you
Adler claimed that all problems originate from what?
Interpersonal relationships
What two notable things did Adler say are important stimulants toward growth?
Feelings of inferiority and the pursuit of superiority
What was something that Adler pointed out is very strong and powerful?
Weakness
What option is possible in romantic love but not in the parent-child relationship?
Separation
What is a young person not in employment, education, or training?
A NEET
Why are many people unable to feel happy, even as they are building their success in the eyes of society?
They are living in competition
Other people are different from us, we are not the same, and
we are equal
What behavior is an inverted feeling of inferiority?
Boasting
What refers to an abnormal mental state made up of complicated groups of emotions and ideas?
A complex
What name is given to the condition where a person uses feelings of inferiority as an excuse?
E.g. I am not well educated so I cannot succeed. I am not good looking so I cannot get married.
The inferiority complex
If someone uses their misfortune or feelings of inferiority in order to feel special, what will that person always need?
Their misfortune or feelings of inferiority
What is someone trying to do to others by displaying their feelings of inferiority so that others will treat them with gentleness?
Control them
What is the condition of using feelings of inferiority as an excuse?
The inferiority complex
To make a show of being on good terms with a powerful person actually shows aspects of what condition?
The superiority complex
What is the healthiest way to compensate for feelings of inferiority?
Strive/grow
What describes the condition of suffering from strong feelings of inferiority combined with being unable to tolerate the inferiority complex leading to acting as if one is superior and fabricating a feeling of superiority?
Superiority complex
What can a person who boasts about their achievements and past glories be said to have?
A superiority complex
A person who really has confidence does not do what according to Adlerian psychology?
Boast
A person who boasts out loud does not have what?
Confidence in themselves
What type of person in society is an example that shows how weakness has power (to control another party, make them worry, or restrict their speech and behavior)?
A baby (through their weakness, they cannot be dominated)
What way of living will make the world into a perilous place overflowing with enemies who cannot be underestimated?
Living in competition
Rather than having a mindset of competition, what is the ideal mental image of yourself and everyone else?
People moving forward and people moving forward behind them
What is the "attributing of purpose"?
Teleology
What is the healthiest kind of compensation (The Courage to be Disliked)?
Striving and growth
What is the special mental state that the inferiority complex can develop into where one cannot tolerate that complex so they indulge in a fabricated feeling of superiority and act as if they are superior?
Superiority complex
Applying oneself to one's studies, being engaged in training, and being diligent in one's work are healthy forms of compensation that may be described as what?
Striving and growth
A person who boasts about their past achievements can be said to have what?
A superiority complex
What is the example of boasting/superiority complex that is a pattern leading to a particular feeling of superiority that manifests due to the feeling of inferiority itself becoming intensified?
Bragging about one's own misfortune
Does the pursuit of superiority have anything to do with competition with other people?
No
When you are able to feel what, the world will not seem so perilous, you will not be plagued by needless doubts, and your interpersonal relationship problems will decrease dramatically?
People are my comrades
What is the reason why many people do not feel happy as they are building their success, something that makes the world to seem to be full of enemies?
They are living in competition
What will a person not be able to avoid if there is competition at the core of their interpersonal relationships?
Interpersonal relationship problems
All problems are what (Adler's definition)?
Interpersonal relationship problems
What is the mindset of taking a single step forward on one's own feet?
The pursuit of superiority
What gets in the way when one is trying to be themselves (The Courage to be Disliked)?
Competition
To acknowledge that other people are different from us, everyone is different, and yet every person has equal value, is part of the pursuit of superiority that does not involve what?
Competition
What does a baby rule over adults with (Adler)?
Weakness
A person who gives authority probably has signs of what?
The superiority complex
What is when one makes a show of being on good terms with a powerful person?
Giving authority
What kind of world do we live in (The Courage to be Disliked)?
A subjective world
What is a complex mental state made up of a complicated group of emotions and ideas?
A complex
Falling for the life lie is an issue of what?
Lack of courage
Who was the first to discuss "feeling of inferiority" as it is used today?
Adler
The image of people moving forward and people moving forward behind them from Adlerian psychology is a reminder of what?
It is enough to just move forward without competing with anyone
In the image of people moving forward from Adlerian psychology, what is the reason we walk forward?
To progress or grow from where we are right now (not to compete with others)
Healthy feelings of inferiority come from a comparison with?
One's ideal self (not others)
What, if present at the core of interpersonal relationships, will make it not possible to avoid interpersonal relationship problems?
Competition
Why is righteous indignation different from personal anger?
Righteous indignation goes beyond one's own interests
What should you do when a person challenges you to a power struggle?
Step away/do not get taken in
What is really the only option when someone challenges you, attacks you personally, or is being abusive (challenging you to a power struggle)?
Step away/do not get taken in
What might cause the anger emotion to disappear?
Understanding you can communicate with language and the language of logic without anger
People with short tempers do not know what?
Other ways to communicate that are not anger
Rather than use anger, what should you use to communicate with others?
Language and the language of logic
What might be a useful tool to take out or fabricate if you wanted to assert an opinion forcefully and make a person submit to you?
Anger
If you believe yourself to be right, why is it pointless to engage in any contest?
If you are right, the matter is closed
What may cause you to be unable to admit a mistake, apologize, or step away from a power struggle by clouding your judgement?
Focusing on winning and losing
What are three things that a person focused on winning and losing will have difficulty doing?
Apologizing, admitting a mistake, and stepping away (from a power struggle)
What are the two objectives of human behavior according to Adlerian psychology?
Being self-reliant and living in harmony with society
In addition to being self-reliant, what is the other objective of human behavior according to Adlerian psychology?
Living in harmony with society
In addition to living in harmony with society, what is the other objective of human behavior according to Adlerian psychology?
Being self-reliant
Consciousness of what two things are the objectives of human psychology according to Adlerian psychology?
Having ability and having comrades
In addition to having consciousness of having ability, what is the other objective of human psychology according to Adlerian psychology?
Consciousness of having comrades
In addition to having consciousness of having comrades, what is the other objective of human psychology according to Adlerian psychology?
Consciousness of having ability
How can all of the objectives of both human behavior and human psychology be achieved according to Adlerian psychology?
Facing the life tasks
What are the three kinds of life tasks in Adlerian psychology?
Work, friendship, and love
The tasks in Adlerian psychology are thought of in terms of what two qualities of interpersonal relationships?
Distance and depth
What is it called to help a person accept themselves as they are now and then take steps forward (Adlerian psychology)?
Encouragement
Who are the people who get tripped up by the easiest of the life tasks, the tasks of work?
NEETs
What is probably a major goal of someone who chooses a lifestyle where they choose to dislike themselves?
To avoid interpersonal relationships
When considering tasks of friendship in Adlerian psychology, what things are more important to consider than the number of friends?
Distance and depth of the interpersonal relationships
Rather than waiting for others or the situation to change, what should one do according to Adlerian psychology?
Change yourself
What are the two subtypes of tasks of love in Adlerian psychology?
Love relationships and family relationships
What are the images given of parent-child relationships and love relationships in the philosophy of Adlerian psychology?
Rigid chains and red strings
What does Adlerian psychology call the state of coming up with all matter of pretexts in order to avoid the life tasks?
The life lie
To say that problems are due to other people or the situation is to fall for what?
The life lie
Is falling for the life lie an evil thing to do?
No
What does it indicate about a person when they fall for the life lie?
They lack courage
If you find yourself falling for the life lie, what do you need to do?
Have more courage
It would be a mistake to think that someone who is falling for the life lie is what?
Evil
Rather than being a psychology of possession, Adlerian psychology is a psychology of what?
Use
What does it mean that Adlerian psychology is a psychology of use?
It is not what you have, but what use you make of it
Realizing that Adlerian psychology is a psychology of use (not possession) and that it is you who decides how to use what you have raises the issue of what?
Lifestyle/choosing your lifestyle
How should you view or try to view other people according to Adlerian psychology?
As comrades
One might think that you should seek recognition from those who you consider comrades, but what is the standpoint of Adlerian psychology?
One must not seek recognition from others
Adlerian psychology strongly recommends that you completely deny the desire for what?
Recognition from others
What was Adler very critical about, and that is part of the cause of why people want recognition?
Reward and punishment education
How can you tell who a task belongs to according to Adlerian psychology?
Ask: who will be affected by the result?
What should you do with other people's tasks according to Adlerian psychology?
Discard them
What will happen to life if you cannot discard other people's tasks and intervene in them instead?
Life will be heavier and more complicated
What is the first step to lightening the load of interpersonal relationships and making life simpler according to Adlerian psychology?
The separation of tasks
What have you not done if you are worried about what other people think of you according to Adlerian psychology?
The separation of tasks
Should you intervene in other people's tasks according to Adlerian psychology?
No
What is the extent that you should be involved in other people's tasks according to Adlerian psychology?
You should offer help and help if they ask
If you were being shunned by your boss at work and thought you cannot do your job as a result, this is an example of what?
The life lie
Should you let other people intervene in your own tasks?
No
What knot did Alexander the Great cut with his sword even though legend said that whoever untied it would be the master of Asia?
The Gordian knot
What is a good idea to picture when considering the separation of tasks?
Alexander cutting the Gordian knot
The courage to be disliked is a part of the courage to do what?
The courage to be happy
The idea that you should be ready to lend a hand to others but not encroach on their territory is part of what?
The separation of tasks
What is the conclusion about what freedom is from Adlerian psychology?
Freedom is being disliked by other people
How is freedom being disliked by other people?
It is proof you are exercising your freedom and living in accordance with your own principles
If you are not living your life for yourself, then who is going to live it for you? This idea from the teachings of Judaism argues what point?
There is nothing wrong with living for yourself
What is the cost of freedom in interpersonal relationships according to Adlerian psychology?
Being disliked
What two things must one not worry about to follow through in one's way of living according to Adlerian psychology?
Being disliked and never being recognized
What did the philosopher say happens to interpersonal relationships if you have the courage to be disliked?
They turn into things of lightness
What allows one to unravel the threads of one's interpersonal relationships according to Adlerian psychology?
The separation of tasks
What is the idea that when a person makes a choice, it is not due to one or the other of emotion or reason, the conscious mind or unconscious mind, or the body or mind: it is the whole that makes the choice?
Holism
What is the goal of interpersonal relationships according to Adlerian psychology?
Community feeling
How does Adler define what the community is?
All humans, animals, plants, and inanimate objects from the past to the future (everything)
What is the smallest unit in society from the point of view of Sociology?
Two people
What simple everyday example can be thought about to appreciate how you belong to a much larger community than the one you can see, and that you are contributing to it?
When you do something so simple as buy something from the store, you can see how the entire world is connected
What is the most important index for considering the degree of happy state in interpersonal relationships?
Community feeling
What term in Adlerian psychology is also referred to as social interest: interest in society?
Community feeling
What will happen to people who hold the belief that they are the center of the world or its protector and that every other person is there to help them?
They will lose their comrades before long
What is the way one can find refuge in the community through taking their own steps forward?
Contribution to others (make efforts to help the community)
If you run into adversity and not being able to belong in the community that you consider your main community, what action to that situation would be a mistake?
Escaping into a smaller community such as the home
If you cannot find refuge in a community and it does not seem possible, what is the principle you should follow?
Listen to the common sense of a larger community
What metaphor describes when one has no refuge in school and then leaves to be in a larger community?
The hardship in school is like a storm in a teacup, and when you leave, you will be greeted with a gentle breeze
What is the stance taken in Adlerian psychology on what one must not do in communication?
Do not rebuke or praise
What might be the fundamental principle of Adlerian psychology?
Refute all manners of vertical relationships
Why is praise not accepted in communication in Adlerian psychology?
It unconsciously creates a vertical relationship
Why is rebuking not accepted in communication in Adlerian psychology?
It has the goal of manipulation
When saying "equal but not the same" in Adlerian psychology, to say equal is to say what?
Horizontal
What is the intention of reward and punishment education?
To manipulate children
What view is wanting praise or giving praise proof of?
Seeing relationships as vertical
What kind of interpersonal relationships are we trying to create by carrying out the separation of tasks?
Horizontal relationships
Rather than rebuke or praise, according to Adlerian psychology, one should do what?
Encourage
What is the essential way to (not) behave in order to build horizontal relationships?
Do not rebuke or praise
If we do not rebuke or praise in communication, what will this help us do according to Adlerian psychology?
Build horizontal relationships
What is referred to in Adlerian psychology as helping a person face their tasks but do not force them?
Encouragement
What phrase is an expression of gratitude that shows a person they have made a contribution and is different than praise?
Thank you
After doing the separation of tasks and building horizontal relationships, what is the approach that comes next according to Adlerian psychology?
Encouragement
To say "thank you" to someone is part of what approach in Adlerian psychology?
Encouragement
In considering the Adlerian psychology position that for a person to feel they have worth, they should feel they are beneficial to the community and are of use to others, how can this point be accepted while also considering people who might not be able to directly help the community such as those living in old people homes?
People support the psychological state of others just by being alive. Consider what would happen to loved ones if the people in the example had to go to the hospital
If you were struggling with the same problems as the character in the dialogue with the philosopher about Adlerian psychology, what would be the very first thing to do?
Build a horizontal relationship with one other person
If the issue of building vertical vs. horizontal relationships is taken to be an issue of lifestyle, what might be the consequential point to understand?
You must choose one or the other
If you were to build a single vertical relationship, you might soon be doing what?
Treating all of your relationships as vertical
Following your boss's instructions even though you know it will result in failure and saying it is the boss's fault is an example of what?
The life lie
In considering the example where your boss tells you to do something that you know will result in failure, to avoid lacking courage and falling back on the life lie, what must you remember?
There is space to refuse and propose a different way of doing things
What are the three things needed to switch from attachment to self (self-interest) to concern for others (community interest)?
Self-acceptance, confidence in others, and contribution to others
What is characterized by suggestions such as "I am strong" and "I can do it" even if they cannot do it and has aspects of the superiority complex and lying?
Self-affirmation
What is different from self-affirmation in that one accepts themselves as they are currently?
Self-acceptance
What might be a good term for the feeling of self-acceptance as you are now and seeing you are not as good as you would ideally be but nevertheless seeing that there is no need to be pessimistic?
Affirmative resignation
What is the name of the prayer that relates to some ideas from Adlerian psychology like the separation of tasks?
The serenity prayer
What is the first line of the serenity prayer?
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
What is the second line of the serenity prayer?
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
What is the third line of the serenity prayer?
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
What is generally taken to mean accepting something undesirable but inevitable, but could also mean to have a firm grasp on the truth of things?
Resignation
Does arriving at affirmative resignation automatically mean the community feeling is reached?
No
If you have arrived to affirmative resignation, what is the next thing that becomes absolutely essential?
Confidence in others
The confidence in others advocated in Adlerian psychology must be completely what in order to build a deep relationship?
Unconditional
What should you do if you do not want to make your interpersonal relationship with a person better?
Sever it
If you want to sever the interpersonal relationship with another person, whose task is it to do so?
Yours
What is the goal of confidence in others in Adlerian psychology?
To form deep relationships (it also helps build horizontal relationships)
The joy of interpersonal relationships, and life, comes from what courage?
The courage to enter deeper relationships by having confidence in others
What is the antonym of confidence that if placed at the interpersonal relationship, is not a way to build a deep relationship?
Doubt
Is arriving at self-acceptance and having confidence in others enough to attain community feeling on its own?
No
After arriving at self-acceptance and having confidence in others, what comes into play in order to contribute to community feeling?
Contribution to others
Labor/work is not a means of earning money according to Adlerian psychology, rather it is a common form of what?
Contribution to others
What is accepting one's irreplaceable self just as it is in Adlerian psychology?
Self-acceptance
What is to place unconditional confidence at the base of one's interpersonal relationships in Adlerian psychology?
Confidence in others
How might contribution to others seem if those others are seen as enemies?
Hypocritical
It has been said that how many years are necessary to truly understand Adlerian psychology?
Half the number of years one has lived so far
Workaholism (focusing on work and avoiding other responsibilities by using work as an excuse) is an example of what?
The life lie
Did Adler recognize ways of living that have certain aspects that are unusually dominant (not concerning themselves with everything)?
No
All problems are interpersonal relationship problems, yet where is a place happiness is to be found?
Interpersonal relationships
What is the greatest unhappiness for a human being according to Adlerian psychology?
Not being able to like oneself
With contribution to others in Adlerian psychology, does it matter if the contribution is visible or invisible?
No
What is the definition of happiness in Adlerian psychology?
The subjective feeling of contribution to others
The subjective sense of being of use to someone, or the subjective feeling of contribution to others, is how what is defined in Adlerian psychology?
Happiness
To avoid the healthy efforts of studying, practicing, improving oneself at something, etc. by being purposefully problematic as an easy way to get attention from other people is called what?
The pursuit of easy superiority
Rather than a story which suggests a line, what is life according to Adlerian psychology?
A series of moments
One should live through the series of moments that is life as if one were doing what (as a metaphor)?
Dancing
Why is dancing a good metaphor for how one should live through every moment?
The goal of dancing is to dance
How might a life focused on achieving a goal as efficiently as possible be described (if the goal were reaching the top of a mountain, the fastest way is taking a helicopter)?
Kinetic (movement with a starting point and end point that is optimal if carried out as efficiently as possible)
How might a life focused on experiencing every moment, treating the process itself as the outcome be described (the goal is mountain climbing itself and not simply getting to the top)?
Energile
Life is a series of moments, and related to that, what two things do not exist?
The past nor the future
What is the greatest life lie?
To not live in the present because you are trying to look at the past or future
When living life earnestly in the here and now, one must not confuse being earnest with being what?
Serious
What is the general meaning of life?
Life, in general, is meaningless
Whatever meaning life has must be?
Assigned to it by the individual
What is the guiding star to a life of freedom according to Adlerian psychology?
Contribution to others
According to Adlerian psychology, if you do not lose sight of this guiding star, you can do whatever you like. What is the guiding star?
Contribution to others
Following the guiding star of contribution to others, to live each moment like a dance means you should not try to look at what?
The past or future
Is there any need to compete with others, since the guiding star is contribution to others?
No
When applying the ideas of Adlerian psychology, does it matter at all whether other people cooperate?
Nope
What is the statement that the book on Adlerian psychology ends with?
The world is simple and life is too
Who was the Austrian medical doctor and later psychotherapist who founded the school of individual psychology?
Alfred Adler
Who proposed that contributing to others was how an individual feels a sense of worth and belonging?
Alfred Adler
Who coined the term inferiority complex?
Alfred Adler
Success in the "life tasks" described by Adler depend on what?
Cooperation
With what did Adler argue human personality could be explained?
Teleology
What personality type in Adler's scheme has a lot of social contact and makes changes for the good (outgoing and active)?
Socially useful
What personality type in Adler's scheme strive for power and are willing to manipulate situations and people, anything to get their way?
Ruling/dominant
What did Alfred Adler propose is how an individual feels a sense of worth and belonging in family and society?
Contributing to others
What is the really hard way to say social interest/community feeling?
Gemeinschaftsgefuhl
What was the isolating element that was part of Adler's early work and that he argued played a key role in personality development?
The inferiority complex
Adler's idea that the individual unconsciously works to convert feelings of inferiority to superiority or completeness is an example of explaining things with what?
Teleology
What is the danger with typology (an act that Adler opposed)?
To gaze reductively (to lose sight of the individual's uniqueness)
What type of person in Adler's scheme is someone who has developed a shell around themselves which protects them, but they must rely on others to carry them through life's difficulties?
Getting/leaning
When getting/leaning type people are overwhelmed, they develop symptoms like phobias, obsessions, compulsions, anxiety, hysteria, amnesia, and so on, that are all typically thought of as what generally?
Neurotic symptoms
What type of person in Adler's scheme hates being defeated and may be successful, but took no risks to get there?
Avoiding
Adlerian psychology is not a strict science because it does not have what?
Falsifiability
Religion explains the world by means of?
Stories
The most important difference between philosophy and religion may be the presence or absence of what?
Stories
Philosophy explains the world by means of?
Abstract concepts
In a metaphor for searching for truth, walking down a long path of darkness and hearing a voice "Nothing further lies ahead. Here is truth." which causes you to walk off the path represents what?
Religion
Someone who claims that they know everything can be said to have ventured into what?
Religion
What is the intended objective of education according to Adlerian psychology?
Self-reliance
The point of view in Adlerian psychology that all people are seeking to escape their helpless and unfree positions and achieve self-reliance is the idea of what?
The pursuit of superiority
What is not necessarily intervention into the task of studying (that would violate the separation of tasks) but can be considered to be providing assistance toward self-reliance?
Education
What term did Adler use to refer to knowledge including how one should live in a community and interact with others, and the knowledge that people need to live happily?
Human knowledge
What is the way one can gain human knowledge (Adlerian psychology)?
By being engaged in interpersonal relationships
When assistance, education, coaching, and counseling adopt self-reliance as the objective, what is the point of entry?
Respect
To extend respect to people of all kinds like passers-by and people in other countries is what?
Respect for people
What is respect in Adlerian psychology?
The ability to see a person as they are and be aware of their unique individuality
To see a person just as they are is what in Adlerian psychology?
Respect
Accepting a person as they are without setting any conditions is what in Adlerian psychology?
Respect
What might be regarded as the starting point of encouragement in Adlerian psychology?
Respect
What two things cannot be forced according to Adlerian psychology ("respect me!" will make no person comply)?
Respect and love
It is unlikely for there to be respect in a classroom if there is what other thing?
Fear
What is the base of all interpersonal relationships?
Respect
Adler faced his clients as what?
Friends
What is all joy according to Adlerian psychology?
Interpersonal relationship joy
What must a teacher be to be able to teach others to be self-reliant?
Self-reliant
What is to break away from self centeredness?
Self-reliance
What is a task accomplished by two people?
Love
What is accomplished by two people through the task of love?
A happy life
What is to love?
To become an adult
Where is the place where children first learn friendship and dig up community feeling?
School
How did Adler refer to people who use their weaknesses or past traumas as a means to control others and restrict their behavior?
Pampered children
What is the building of the happiness of an inseparable us?
Love
What is the task for two people that is to accomplish living a happy life?
Love
What is more difficult: loving another person or being loved by a person?
Loving another person
What is the love that is not divine nor animal?
Human love
What is believing in another party with conditions?
Trust
What are friend relationships built on (confidence or trust)?
Confidence
What is the incomparable survival strategy that the human race acquired to compensate for its physical inferiority?
Division of labor
Why do humans work?
To survive
Why do humans create society?
To work and divide up labor
Who first pointed out the importance of the division of labor in economics?
Adam Smith
What is more important than the work that one does?
The attitude one takes toward the work
What is the starting point in order to assist a person toward self reliance?
Respect
What lies at the root of respect?
Confidence
Can one have confidence in someone who one does not respect?
No
What is a work relationship without friendship based on?
Trust
Just as a human being can grow as an individual...
The entire human race can continue to grow
How can you believe in a person who you can see telling lies clearly?
Believe in the whole person
What is a friendship relationship based on?
Confidence
A person drunk on what will be unable to recognize the values of others?
Justice
Who may have been first to consider the division of labor in psychology?
Adler
What is believing in others without setting any conditions?
Confidence
What are work relationships built on (confidence or trust)?
Trust
Can confidence in others exist without self confidence?
No
All biographies and history books are what (because they are manipulated by those in power with great skill by the powerful at the time to try to prove their legitimacy)?
Apocrypha
What are the first 2 of the 3 sides of what people speak about in counseling?
That bad person and poor me
What is that abstract thing that everyone complains about?
That bad person
What style of approaches not present in Adlerian psychology are considered by at to be magic?
Shock therapy
What is the fifth stage of problem behavior?
Proof of incompetence
An organization where someone uses their power to suppress others has what, at its foundation?
Irrationality
What is Adlerian psychology based on instead of magic?
Respect
Are rebuking and praising necessary?
No
Who is the sovereign of the classroom?
The students
What can an organization that is under the control of a dictator not avoid?
Corruption
What is that abstract thing that everyone pleads?
Poor me
What should you focus on instead of complaining about that bad person and seeking agreement about how they are bad or pleading poor me?
What should I do from now on?
What is that abstract thing that everyone blames?
That bad person
What will occur if you look like you are about to get angry?
A power struggle
Understanding the 5 stages of what will allow you to discern whether rebuking is right or wrong?
Problem behavior
What is the first stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
What is the second stage of problem behavior?
Attention drawing
What is the third stage of problem behavior?
Power struggles
What stage of problem behavior is stalking an example behavior of?
Revenge
What is the final stage of problem behavior in contemporary Adlerian psychology?
Proof of incompetence
What stage of problem behavior is a child who does something bad just to stand out?
Attention drawing
A child who strives to demonstrate drive and obedience is in what stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
There is no need for words of what when teaching?
Reprimand
Should a crime only committed by a child due to ignorance be punished?
No
How many stages are there to problem behavior according to The Courage To Be Happy?
5
What is the fourth stage of problem behavior in Adlerian psychology?
Revenge
What is the only thing you should do right away with a power struggle?
Do not engage, get away
What does the third stage of problematic behavior exhibit a lot of?
Power struggles
What are the 3 sides of the triangular column used in Adlerian counseling?
That bad person, poor me, and what should I do from now on?
What is the fundamental thing to start with to face any situation with other people when you use Adlerian psychology?
Respect
When are rules accepted in Adlerian psychology?
When they are established through democracy (mutual consent)
What happens when rules are established according to someone's solitary judgement and then are enforced unequally?
The ruler will need to use their power to suppress others
What is a constructive and scientific psychology of human knowledge that is based on respect for people?
Adlerian psychology
Adlerian psychology is based on seeing other people with what?
Respect
What matters more than what happened in the past?
What meaning is given to the past in the present
What is the point that we should be talking to each other about?
What should I do from now on?
What is painted in an endless array of colors of now?
The past
What are two things that are unnecessary to talk about, and when people complain about them, you can ignore it because there is nothing there to talk about?
That bad person and poor me
To get to the essence of teleology, what is the fundamental thing you must to realize?
The past does not exist
What is a skill and attitude that one has when walking side by side with another?
Empathy
What is a grand story that is constantly manipulated by the powerful for the purpose of proving the legitimacy of those in power?
History
What is something true about empathy, since it is a skill?
It is something one can learn
What is the issue to focus on more than how the world is?
How we are and how we see the world
How can one have the eyes of another?
Imagine what appears in their eyes
How can one have the ears of another?
Imagine the sounds their ears hear
Is it possible to escape our own subjectivity?
No
What does a teacher who is always rebuking students show about rebuking?
That rebuking is not effective. If it was, some number of times would be sufficient
Just by looking like you're about to get angry, what will happen?
A power struggle
What's the fourth stage of problematic behavior (Adlerian psychology)?
Revenge
Stalking, self-harm, and social withdrawal are all within the realm of what in Adlerian psychology?
Revenge
What is the fifth stage of problem behavior, that comes after revenge?
Proof of incompetence
What can you do to when someone is in the proof of incompetence stage?
Nothing, refer to a specialist
What might be the final goal/what someone in the proof of incompetence stage is trying to say to you?
Abandon me
What does Adlerian psychology lack that makes it not a true science?
Falsifiability
"I will always think about myself, other people, and the world. Therefore
I will not know without end"
What is the objective of education (Adlerian psychology)?
Self-reliance
What is the way human knowledge can be learned?
By being engaged in relationships with other people
What are the two objectives for behavior (Adlerian psychology)?
To be self-reliant and to live in harmony with society
What are the two objectives for the psychology that supports behaviors to be self-reliant and live in harmony with society?
Consciousness of having ability and consciousness that people are my comrades
Respect is the ability to do what?
See a person as they are and be aware of their unique individuality
What is seeing people as they are?
Respect
What also means that a person should be allowed to grow and unfold from as they are?
Respect
Accepting a person as they are and setting no conditions shows great what?
Respect
What is the only possible point of entry in education?
Respect
One definition of what word is to see a person as they are and to be aware of their unique individuality?
Respect
Is it possible to know the past version of a person?
No
What do Adlerian thinking people talk to each other about?
What I/we should do from now on
What is carrying out change, when taken to its extreme?
Death
What decides the past?
Your now
Courage and respect are contagious, and where does it begin?
With you
What is the concern that another person should grow and unfold as they are?
Respect
What is the starting point of encouragement?
Respect
What is the first stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
What is the second stage of problem behavior?
Attention drawing
What is when a child is unable to gain a privileged position even when they have done a good thing?
Attention drawing
What is the condition of having neither the resolution nor courage to use his reason without direction from another?
Juvenile condition
What does Kant declare you should have the courage to use?
Reason