This old Socrates was a formidable opponent!
Do not rebuke. And do not praise.
In other schools of counseling, shock therapy style approaches try to invoke strong emotions by probing into the past. There is no magic in Adlerian psychology.
Do not rebuke. And do not praise.
In other schools of counseling, shock therapy style approaches try to invoke strong emotions by probing into the past. There is no magic in Adlerian psychology.
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Adler faced his clients as what?
Friends
What is all joy according to Adlerian psychology?
Interpersonal relationship joy
What must a teacher be to be able to teach others to be self-reliant?
Self-reliant
What is to break away from self centeredness?
Self-reliance
What is a task accomplished by two people?
Love
What is accomplished by two people through the task of love?
A happy life
What is to love?
To become an adult
Where is the place where children first learn friendship and dig up community feeling?
School
How did Adler refer to people who use their weaknesses or past traumas as a means to control others and restrict their behavior?
Pampered children
What is the building of the happiness of an inseparable us?
Love
What is the task for two people that is to accomplish living a happy life?
Love
What is more difficult: loving another person or being loved by a person?
Loving another person
What is the love that is not divine nor animal?
Human love
What is believing in another party with conditions?
Trust
What are friend relationships built on (confidence or trust)?
Confidence
What is the incomparable survival strategy that the human race acquired to compensate for its physical inferiority?
Division of labor
Why do humans work?
To survive
Why do humans create society?
To work and divide up labor
Who first pointed out the importance of the division of labor in economics?
Adam Smith
What is more important than the work that one does?
The attitude one takes toward the work
What is the starting point in order to assist a person toward self reliance?
Respect
What lies at the root of respect?
Confidence
Can one have confidence in someone who one does not respect?
No
What is a work relationship without friendship based on?
Trust
Just as a human being can grow as an individual...
The entire human race can continue to grow
How can you believe in a person who you can see telling lies clearly?
Believe in the whole person
What is a friendship relationship based on?
Confidence
A person drunk on what will be unable to recognize the values of others?
Justice
Who may have been first to consider the division of labor in psychology?
Adler
What is believing in others without setting any conditions?
Confidence
What are work relationships built on (confidence or trust)?
Trust
Can confidence in others exist without self confidence?
No
All biographies and history books are what (because they are manipulated by those in power with great skill by the powerful at the time to try to prove their legitimacy)?
Apocrypha
What are the first 2 of the 3 sides of what people speak about in counseling?
That bad person and poor me
What is that abstract thing that everyone complains about?
That bad person
What style of approaches not present in Adlerian psychology are considered by at to be magic?
Shock therapy
What is the fifth stage of problem behavior?
Proof of incompetence
An organization where someone uses their power to suppress others has what, at its foundation?
Irrationality
What is Adlerian psychology based on instead of magic?
Respect
Are rebuking and praising necessary?
No
Who is the sovereign of the classroom?
The students
What can an organization that is under the control of a dictator not avoid?
Corruption
What is that abstract thing that everyone pleads?
Poor me
What should you focus on instead of complaining about that bad person and seeking agreement about how they are bad or pleading poor me?
What should I do from now on?
What is that abstract thing that everyone blames?
That bad person
What will occur if you look like you are about to get angry?
A power struggle
Understanding the 5 stages of what will allow you to discern whether rebuking is right or wrong?
Problem behavior
What is the first stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
What is the second stage of problem behavior?
Attention drawing
What is the third stage of problem behavior?
Power struggles
What stage of problem behavior is stalking an example behavior of?
Revenge
What is the final stage of problem behavior in contemporary Adlerian psychology?
Proof of incompetence
What stage of problem behavior is a child who does something bad just to stand out?
Attention drawing
A child who strives to demonstrate drive and obedience is in what stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
There is no need for words of what when teaching?
Reprimand
Should a crime only committed by a child due to ignorance be punished?
No
How many stages are there to problem behavior according to The Courage To Be Happy?
5
What is the fourth stage of problem behavior in Adlerian psychology?
Revenge
What is the only thing you should do right away with a power struggle?
Do not engage, get away
What does the third stage of problematic behavior exhibit a lot of?
Power struggles
What are the 3 sides of the triangular column used in Adlerian counseling?
That bad person, poor me, and what should I do from now on?
What is the fundamental thing to start with to face any situation with other people when you use Adlerian psychology?
Respect
When are rules accepted in Adlerian psychology?
When they are established through democracy (mutual consent)
What happens when rules are established according to someone's solitary judgement and then are enforced unequally?
The ruler will need to use their power to suppress others
What is a constructive and scientific psychology of human knowledge that is based on respect for people?
Adlerian psychology
Adlerian psychology is based on seeing other people with what?
Respect
What matters more than what happened in the past?
What meaning is given to the past in the present
What is the point that we should be talking to each other about?
What should I do from now on?
What is painted in an endless array of colors of now?
The past
What are two things that are unnecessary to talk about, and when people complain about them, you can ignore it because there is nothing there to talk about?
That bad person and poor me
To get to the essence of teleology, what is the fundamental thing you must to realize?
The past does not exist
What is a skill and attitude that one has when walking side by side with another?
Empathy
What is a grand story that is constantly manipulated by the powerful for the purpose of proving the legitimacy of those in power?
History
What is something true about empathy, since it is a skill?
It is something one can learn
What is the issue to focus on more than how the world is?
How we are and how we see the world
How can one have the eyes of another?
Imagine what appears in their eyes
How can one have the ears of another?
Imagine the sounds their ears hear
Is it possible to escape our own subjectivity?
No
What does a teacher who is always rebuking students show about rebuking?
That rebuking is not effective. If it was, some number of times would be sufficient
Just by looking like you're about to get angry, what will happen?
A power struggle
What's the fourth stage of problematic behavior (Adlerian psychology)?
Revenge
Stalking, self-harm, and social withdrawal are all within the realm of what in Adlerian psychology?
Revenge
What is the fifth stage of problem behavior, that comes after revenge?
Proof of incompetence
What can you do to when someone is in the proof of incompetence stage?
Nothing, refer to a specialist
What might be the final goal/what someone in the proof of incompetence stage is trying to say to you?
Abandon me
What does Adlerian psychology lack that makes it not a true science?
Falsifiability
"I will always think about myself, other people, and the world. Therefore
I will not know without end"
What is the objective of education (Adlerian psychology)?
Self-reliance
What is the way human knowledge can be learned?
By being engaged in relationships with other people
What are the two objectives for behavior (Adlerian psychology)?
To be self-reliant and to live in harmony with society
What are the two objectives for the psychology that supports behaviors to be self-reliant and live in harmony with society?
Consciousness of having ability and consciousness that people are my comrades
Respect is the ability to do what?
See a person as they are and be aware of their unique individuality
What is seeing people as they are?
Respect
What also means that a person should be allowed to grow and unfold from as they are?
Respect
Accepting a person as they are and setting no conditions shows great what?
Respect
What is the only possible point of entry in education?
Respect
One definition of what word is to see a person as they are and to be aware of their unique individuality?
Respect
Is it possible to know the past version of a person?
No
What do Adlerian thinking people talk to each other about?
What I/we should do from now on
What is carrying out change, when taken to its extreme?
Death
What decides the past?
Your now
Courage and respect are contagious, and where does it begin?
With you
What is the concern that another person should grow and unfold as they are?
Respect
What is the starting point of encouragement?
Respect
What is the first stage of problem behavior?
Demand for admiration
What is the second stage of problem behavior?
Attention drawing
What is when a child is unable to gain a privileged position even when they have done a good thing?
Attention drawing
What is the condition of having neither the resolution nor courage to use his reason without direction from another?
Juvenile condition
What does Kant declare you should have the courage to use?
Reason